Finding The One For You
You can find the one for you, hopefully online. First, you have to determine exactly what you are looking for in "the one".
If you approach online dating with the "club attitude" we're not going to do too well. The club attitude is to let singles wander over to us...chat for a while...see where it goes to from there. If it doesn't look like it is going to go our way, we let them wander off to talk to someone else, knowing eventually someone new will wander over to us and the whole process will start all over again.
This is not the approach to take online. In the club we may have to "qualify" the 10 singles that wander over to us. Online we may have to qualify 100's of singles. While wasting time, we are not available for "the one".
If you are not interested in someone either romantically or as a friend, do not let them waste your time. Online you will find what I call the "professional time wasters". They aren't just wasting your time, they a wasting a "whole-lot" of singles time! That is what they do! They know it is highly unlikely you would be seriously interested in them, but they will hang onto your attention as long as possible.
You will not be successful at finding the one for you if you continue to let the "time wasters" steal your time.
You have to simply say "thanks but no thanks" and stop all communications. I mean ALL! Ignore the birthday cards, the happy holiday greetings...ALL. You can then invest your time in finding the one for you.
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Added: 17 апреля 2008
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