Relationship Doctor Reveals the Secrets to Being Single - Part 1
Being single is a wonderful place to be, because it gives you the chance to get to know you.
It can also be a lonely place where you start to doubt yourself. You have a mix of emotions from; I am happy being single, I have no-one to answer to, I can do what I want when I want, and then when you look around all you can see is happy couples and you start worry about not finding someone. Now you worry about becoming lonely as you see the years stretch before you.
It does not matter how attractive a person is, or how much attention they get from the opposite sex. The task of finding a long term partner can be daunting. We all look at beautiful people and think they will have no problem meeting someone. This may be true, but who wants to meet and be with just anyone?
The fact is it makes no difference how attractive you are, the problem is the same, finding who is right for you is not easy. Then the doubt sets in, you're having a great time being single why wouldn't you, you have freedom and the thought of swapping that freedom for night after night watching videos whilst your friends are traveling and meeting new people, creating adventures and new opportunities. But still in the back of your mind there is a voice telling you to find that special partner.
I love being single So now you find yourself going out more and even though your telling yourself "I love being single and I'm not going out to find a someone". Now you've been going out for a while and even though you know you don't want to meet someone, it would be nice to have the choice to say no! You are meeting people but they are either idiots or just not what you would want. Now you start to question what is wrong with you!
You roll in after yet another night out, you head for the fridge and your diet goes out the window and you then ponder your life, am I too fat, ugly, am I intimidating, what's wrong with me? You fall asleep feeling depressed! You then wake the following day, you shake the feeling of being depressed and convince yourself that being single is the best place for you and so the cycle starts and you find yourself repeating these thoughts. If this is you then something needs to change.
The key to finding someone special This cycle creates a desperate persona, and without knowing this gives off an unattractive vibe that others will pick up on or abuse. The best way to find someone special is to be happy and create energy and excitement for your own life right now! Start to create the life you want and do not make your happiness conditional on meeting that special partner.
Accept that meeting someone who is right for you is what you want. Look at that person as an added value to your already fabulous life, or the one your now going to create. Don't expect this special person to make your life brilliant because you can create insecurities in you later in the relationship, it will make you vulnerable. This change of mindset will create a more attractive you to the opposite sex, whether your male or female. When you start to create the life you want, you will find that you'll start to meet others' that are interested in the same things you are into and now you will have more in common with your potential dates than you ever would have had down at the local bar. So the goal is to feel confident and happy about 'you' first.
The start of this article states 'Being single is a wonderful place to be because it gives you a chance to get to know you'.
A lot of people don't do this, or even know how to start and this is your key to finding that special partner.
The answers to this are in the next article. DatingShoes explains how to get that great feeling of just being you and be successful at being single. Make sure you don't miss it by subscribing for free now!
DatingShoes mission is to change we think about dating and relationships so we can create more successful bonds with people long term. We want to help people to be more resourceful when it comes to choosing partners so they are less likely to make mistakes with their choices that could cost them dearly in the future.
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Added: 16 àïðåëÿ 2008
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