Commitment in Relationships is the Key to Close Couples
One of the five "C's" of relationships is commitment and without it, you do not have a relationship, in fact any long-term relationship without it, is doomed, as it was never meant to be. But what happens when you are totally committed body and soul, and your chosen partner is not quite there yet? Well, it should come as no surprise to you that commitment from another cannot be forced. "Those convinced against their will, are of the same opinion still" or someone once said.
If your partner, lover or companion is not committed you will be able to tell and it can become an emotional roller coaster to give without receiving that same level of commitment. But I must tell you that you should not worry about this in the beginning phases of a relationship. You should not try to force commitment and you definitely, do not want to let it control your thoughts. It's best not to judge things and let the natural order of things take their place. Commitment, true commitment only occurs when its real, it cannot be faked, and you should not want it any other way.
If you are not committed in a relationship and the other party is, then consider that you should not be pushed either, it just won't feel right. If someone demands commitment on your part too early, perhaps they are do not care about your feelings enough. Try to remember that saying; "If you love something set it free" and set yourself free, and if you keep coming back, maybe you are ready for the next step. Likewise, if your partner seems uncommitted set them free and see if they instinctively and magnetically find their way back into your arms.
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Added: 16 апреля 2008
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