As the waters of the sea wander over the sands exposing cleanliness as it returns to its greater mass it reminds us how we need to grow by letting go of curious oddities like illusions of permanency. Nothing stands still and as magical as a new relationship is with its unique mysteries the couple has to evolve because there is no growth in permanency.
In all the world, there basically two types of women. There are women that men love and women that men leave. It doesn't really make any difference which side you fall on. You can become the woman that men love for the rest of your life. But first we will want to dispose of some pretty common misconceptions. To start with, you will want to make sure that you know what your man needs from the relationship.
Relationships are central to being human. We need each other and most of us need to be needed. From relationships we get a sense of belonging. We're given an opportunity to give love, to be loved. Relationships present to us the mirrors for who we think we are as well as who we are not. We choose like-minded souls to reassure ourselves that our own lives make sense.
You've found this great girl, she is all that you can think about, you can talk for hours on something and nothing, and you have great times together, life is good. The comes the fateful day when you are told that, "I'm not ready for a relationship right now." You become confused, if everything was going so well, why this? Was it something you did, there something wrong with you?
Last week had a conversation with a friend of mine where we spoke about the dynamics of a relationship between two people. I feel compelled to write about it because in some shape or form it affects every relationship. We discussed being someone's everything... or someone being your everything. We hear people talk about finding a partner who can share in their passions and lives, while others will state that they want some independence from their partner.
Well handcuffs only go so far and eventually one has to release them for practical and hygienic reasons but that being said if you cannot trust your man to keep his hands clean, then walk away. Truly life is too short to suffer the indignity of abuse such infidelity drags into your life and trust me you are worth more than any amount of selfishness can offer.
When you were a young girl you likely had visions of what your life would be like in the future. In the fairytale that played in your mind you probably imagined that you'd meet a fantastic man, fall in love and he'd drop to one knee and ask you to marry him. It's the way life works, right? Wrong! For many of us, our fairytale has a much different ending or no ending at all.
In the words of God as written in the Book of Isaiah, what is attractive to God is to maintain what is right and do what is just. We wonder why our world is out of kilter and yet we decline to fix the injustices within society. Firstly we must fix the injustices raiding our inner strength and we attend to this task through reflection and meditation.
Have you totally fallen for a guy and are frustrated thinking about when he will finally feel the same way about you? Are you fearful that if he doesn't commit to you soon, someone may come into his life and steal him away from you? If you can't fathom the possibility of being without this guy long-term, here are some incredible tips that all the most seductive and successful women use to captivate any man that are proven.
Why can't a guy just commit? Are you aware of the biggest fears guys have about committing? What if you could get rid of these fears they have and make commitment very easy? What it boils down to, is that you can't make anyone do something they don't want. So don't try, because it's not worth not being completely there in the relationship, it's just no fun.