One main reason is the women in their past. All those women who seemed so cool in the beginning that turned into nagging, drama queens. You know the type, she was clingy and needed his constant attention and validation. She threatened his freedom to the core. Yep, he is probably going to be a little more cautious. There really are a lot of crazy women out there.
In relationships people often fall in love with people who are perfect, except. He would be perfect for you, if. I could really fall in love with her, but. So you think they can change or you think you can change that about them; right? You know over time, maybe they could be the perfect person for you. It is always the if and the but that add conditions to a situation.
"Love is sweeter the second time around." That's what lovers want to believe in, especially the couples that still want their relationship to last until the end. Maybe not everybody would agree with this especially when the past relationship turned out to be a traumatic experience they had during that time. But what matters most is that lovers would like to get another chance, another wave at their relationships and bring back what was lost.
So when I was 17 a boy wrote me a song. He was performing for a group of people and announced that the next song was written for me. Now I was mostly a tomboy, but in that moment I was a princess, the only girl in the room. Unfortunately for me there were several other girls in the room, and my first romance ended quickly. But I learned one very important thing about myself in that instant: I love grand gestures!
How can I keep a man in a relationship? The answer to this question is not as complicated as it might seem. Although there are many women out there struggling to stay in a relationship, keeping a man interested in a women is quite simple. 1. Get a life No, this is not a joke. Men get easily bored of boring women. This is the most important piece of advice you can get.
Relationships begin with respect and loving attention. But not all has this kind of relationship. Clear and open communication is very important, because what was once a delightful relationship or a happy intimate affair can lead into break-up. It will come to a point, when you're asking yourself and wondering why it did not work although you thought you did your best?
With Valentine's Day looming, so many thoughts go through each of our heads about this: Will I get a valentine? Does someone fancy me secretly? Will my partner forget? But does anyone actually know the real reason why it is celebrated? The story is actually a very sad and we forget to celebrate Saint Valentine for all he did. In the Roman times boys and girls lives were very separate when growing up, so it was a tradition that on 14th February before the festival Lupercalia, the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars.
You meet a guy, you like each, you want to get to know each other so you have a few dates, you have fun together, life is looking good, and then for reasons unknown, your boyfriend who you are head over heels for just can't be bothered anymore. You still might go on dates, you still might talk, but not on a regular basis, and one thing that you have noticed is that you are having to do all the running in the relationship.
Women get left all the time by men. The last words they hear are something like this. "I am not ready for a relationship", or "It's not you, it's me". Months go by and you hear through the grapevine that he is in a relationship or engaged. Wow, what just happened? What did she have that you don't? I have heard this phrase before and I now completely understand it.
One of the best ways to cultivate a relationship is to figure out what your partner wants and find ways to satisfy those. Contrary to what most women think, men do want more things aside from just filling their bellies and sex. In order to make the most out of your relationship, it's best for you to dig deeper and find out what men love to have in a relationship.